Practical steps to take
- Gather your financial information. Collect records of income, assets, debts, superannuation and joint accounts. A clear financial picture is essential for any property settlement.
- Understand the full asset pool. List what you own and owe, together and separately — property, savings, super, vehicles, businesses and liabilities.
- Think about the children. Consider what living and time arrangements would genuinely work for them. Their stability matters most.
- Protect your wellbeing. Separation is emotionally demanding. Lean on support — friends, family, or counselling.
- Get clear on your goals. Separate what you truly need from what you'd prefer. This clarity is invaluable in mediation.
- Seek early guidance. Understanding your options early — including mediation — helps you avoid costly missteps.
You don't have to have it all figured out
Many people come to us before they've sorted any of this. A free initial consultation is a good first step — we'll help you understand what to do next, with no obligation.
A note on safety
If your situation involves family violence or you feel unsafe, your safety comes first. Contact emergency services if you're in immediate danger, and tell us about any concerns so we can advise the safest path — including arrangements that mean you never have to be in the same room as the other person.
How mediation fits in
Once you're prepared, mediation is usually the fastest, least stressful way to resolve the practical questions — parenting, property and finances — without court. See how to prepare for mediation →