Fair support, agreed — not imposed by a court

Spousal Support Mediation — fair support, agreed not imposed.

Spousal maintenance is the financial support one former partner pays the other where the recipient can't reasonably meet their own needs. Mediation lets you reach a sensible agreement on amount, duration, and form — tailored to your situation rather than left to a court.

Key takeaway

Spousal maintenance is financial support one former partner pays the other where the recipient can't adequately meet their own reasonable needs and the payer has the capacity to pay. Unlike child support, there's no fixed formula — amount, duration and form are negotiable. Mediation produces faster, fairer outcomes than court, and the agreement is then formalised through consent orders or a binding financial agreement.

What is spousal maintenance?

Spousal maintenance is financial support paid by one former partner to the other after separation. It's separate from child support, separate from the property settlement, and governed by the Family Law Act 1975. The principle behind it is straightforward: where one partner genuinely can't meet their own reasonable needs, and the other has the capacity to help, support should be paid.

It's not automatic, not punitive, and not common in every separation — but where it applies, it can be the difference between a fair transition and one that leaves one partner stranded.

Who's eligible

Eligibility turns on two questions, working together:

  • Need — can the applicant reasonably meet their own living expenses from their own income and resources?
  • Capacity — can the other party afford to pay, after meeting their own reasonable needs?

Both must be satisfied. Courts also consider age, health, income, earning capacity, the care of children, and the standard of living during the relationship. See the full spousal maintenance guide →

How much, and how long

Unlike child support, there's no formula. The amount reflects the gap between the recipient's reasonable needs and their own capacity to meet them, limited by the payer's ability to pay. It can be a lump sum, regular periodic payments, or a combination.

Duration varies too. Often spousal maintenance is time-limited — supporting the recipient while they retrain, re-enter the workforce, or move toward self-sufficiency. It can be reviewed if circumstances change significantly, and it generally ends if the recipient remarries. Permanent maintenance is uncommon and usually reserved for cases of age or incapacity.

The mediation process

  1. Initial consultation — we understand both situations.
  2. Full financial disclosure — income, expenses, assets, capacity.
  3. Pre-mediation intake — separate sessions with each party.
  4. The mediation session — working through need, capacity, and the right form of support.
  5. Documented agreement — amount, duration, form, and review provisions.
  6. Formalisation — consent orders or binding financial agreement.

Spousal maintenance isn't about punishment — it's about practical transition

The goal is to enable a financially weaker partner to transition to self-sufficiency, not to penalise the payer indefinitely. A well-mediated agreement reflects this reality.

Lump sum, periodic, or in-kind

Mediation lets you craft the right form of support, not just the amount:

  • Lump sum — a one-off payment, often from the property pool. Provides finality.
  • Periodic — regular weekly, fortnightly or monthly payments. Often time-limited.
  • In-kind — covering specific expenses like rent, school fees, or a mortgage. Less common but sometimes practical.
  • Mixed — a combination, e.g. a lump sum plus periodic payments for a period.

Spousal maintenance vs child support

People conflate these but they're entirely separate:

  • Child support is for the children's costs, calculated by a formula administered by Services Australia.
  • Spousal maintenance is for an adult partner's own support, assessed on need and capacity.

You can be entitled to one, both, or neither. See child support mediation →

Making the agreement binding

The agreement is formalised through either consent orders (court-approved) or a binding financial agreement (private contract with independent legal advice for each party). Both make the support legally enforceable. See which option suits you →

Getting started

The first step is a free initial consultation. We'll listen, assess the eligibility question honestly, and outline what's involved. Spousal maintenance matters often resolve in a single mediation session once full disclosure is in.

Questions & answers

Spousal Support Mediation — frequently asked

Who can claim spousal maintenance?+

A former partner who can't reasonably meet their own needs, where the other party has the capacity to pay. Both need and capacity must be present. Eligibility isn't automatic.

How much spousal maintenance gets paid?+

There's no fixed formula. The amount reflects the gap between the recipient's reasonable needs and their own capacity, limited by the payer's ability to pay.

How long does spousal maintenance last?+

Often time-limited, to support transition to self-sufficiency. It can be reviewed if circumstances change and generally ends on remarriage. Permanent maintenance is uncommon.

Is spousal maintenance the same as alimony?+

Alimony is a US term. The Australian concept is spousal maintenance, governed by the Family Law Act and assessed on need and capacity.

Do de facto couples have spousal maintenance rights?+

Yes. De facto partners can claim maintenance on the same need-and-capacity basis as married couples, subject to the usual de facto time limits.

Can we agree spousal maintenance without going to court?+

Yes — that's what mediation is for. You agree the amount, duration and form, then formalise through consent orders or a binding financial agreement.

What if my ex's circumstances change?+

Properly drafted spousal maintenance agreements include review provisions. Significant changes can be the basis for varying the arrangement, whether agreed or by court application.

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