Family Mediation

Can I bring a lawyer to family mediation?

In short: Yes, you can bring a lawyer to family mediation. Their role is to support and advise you, not to advocate or run arguments. Most FDRPs welcome lawyers who understand the mediation process and can help their client participate constructively.

What a lawyer can do in mediation

  • Advise you privately during breaks on the legal implications of proposed agreements
  • Help you understand your rights and entitlements before and after the session
  • Review any draft agreement at the end of the day before you sign
  • Assist with formalising the agreement into consent orders or a binding financial agreement after the session

What a lawyer should not do in mediation

Mediation is a facilitated negotiation, not a court hearing. A lawyer who interrupts, advocates aggressively, or turns the session into a legal argument can undermine the process. Good mediation lawyers understand the difference between advising a client and running a case.

Does the other party need to agree?

Typically, both parties should be informed if a lawyer is attending so neither side feels ambushed. If one party has a lawyer, the other may also wish to bring one or take independent legal advice before the session.

Getting legal advice before you mediate

Even if you do not bring a lawyer to the session itself, we recommend getting independent legal advice before mediation on property matters — particularly superannuation splitting and the range of outcomes a court might award. This helps you negotiate from an informed position.

See our family lawyers directory if you need a referral.

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Reviewed byDan Toombs·Last reviewed 13 August 2026
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